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Any fool can criticize,condemn and complain, but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving

Critisim is futile it puts a person on the defensive and usually make him strive to justify himself

Criticism id dangerous because it wounds a person's pride hurts his sense of importance and arouses resentment

Instead if of critisism, let's try to understand them. Try to figure out why they do what they do. thats more profitable and intriguing than critisism and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness

The bigest secrect of dealing people

The depest urge in human nature "the desire to be important"

To develop the best in the person is by appreciation and encouragement. Average people do the exact opposite

Sincere appriciations is one of the secrect in handling men sucessfully

Flattery seldom works with discerning people. Its shallow, selfish and insinsincere

Be afraid of friends who flatter you. Flattery is cheap priase

Begin to think of other person good points, we won't have to resort to flattery so cheap

Be "Hearty in your apporbation and lavish in your praise"

Dont't think of what you want but think of what others want

Its necessay to bait the hook to suit the fish

"How can i make this person want to do it ?. This question will stop us from rushing into a situation heedlessly , with futile chatter about our desire

"If there is any one secret of sucess, it lies in the ability to get others person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own"

"People who can put them selves in the place of other people who can undersatnd the working of their minds , need never worry about what the future has in store for them"